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31 Do not envy a man of violence
and do not choose any of his ways,
32 for the devious person is an abomination to the Lord,
but the upright are in his confidence.
33 The Lord’s curse is on the house of the wicked,
but he blesses the dwelling of the righteous. (Pr 3:31-33)

When Solomon is instructing his son in this section of Proverbs, Solomon delivers some negatives. That is, he tells his beloved son what not to do. In v. 31 he tells him not to envy a man of violence. Solomon’s father, David, wrote similar wisdom: “Fret not yourself because of evildoers; be not envious of wrongdoers!” (Ps 37:1).
It’s interesting when you step back and look at how the minds of father and son, David and Solomon, ran parallel at times. Both were brilliant men; both were kings; both were wealthy; both were massively faithful at times and egregiously sinful at other times. Both were writers who penned much of the wisdom literature of the Bible. And both wrote much about how to be godly amidst a wicked environment, about how to remain unsullied in a environment of hazardous materials and/or personnel.
A recurring theme in the writings of both men is this emphasis upon keeping one’s distance from devious, jealous, envious people. Solomon calls them in Pr 3:32 “an abomination to the LORD.” That’s strong language. They’re pictured as those whose paths are crooked (Pr 2:15).
Solomon stresses to his son in Proverbs to seek the Lord’s blessing, not to curry favor with the devious. Why? Well Pr 3:33 is straightforward: “The LORD’S curse is on the house of the wicked, but he blesses the dwelling of the righteous.”











