Chaplain Daily Touchpoint #369: Integrity vs. the Secret Life

The Issue: Integrity vs. the Secret Life

The Story: The narrative is found in Genesis 27. It is the story of secret plots, scheming, lies, deception, and theft. It’s the story of Rebekah plotting to have Jacob, rather than Esau, receive the blessing of Isaac, the father of both boys.

Rebekah said to her son Jacob, “I heard your father speak to your brother Esau. ‘Bring me game and prepare for me delicious food, that I may eat it and bless you before the LORD before I die.’ Now therefore, my son, obey my voice as I command you. Go to the flock and bring me two good young goats, so that I may prepare from them delicious food for your father, such as he loves. And you shall bring it to your father to eat, so that he may bless you before he dies.” But Jacob said to Rebekah his mother, “Behold, my brother Esau is a hairy man, and I am a smooth man. Perhaps my father will feel me, and I shall seem to be mocking him and bring a curse upon myself and not a blessing.” His mother said to him, “Let your curse be on me, my son; only obey my voice, and go, bring them to me.” (Gen 27:5-13)

Teaching: Jacob went along with his mother’s scheme. He lied to his father, received his blessing, and Esau was driven out. In Isaac’s words,

Behold, away from the fatness of the earth shall your dwelling be,

and away from the dew of heaven on high.

By your sword you shall live,

and you shall serve your brother;

but when you grow restless

you shall break his yoke from your neck.” (Gen 27:39b-40)

Jacob lived up to–or we might say–down to, his name. (“Jacob” means He takes by the heel, or He cheats.)

Takeaway: The fallout from secrecy, deception, lies, scheming, and theft would lead to devastation, family strife, more lies, and bitterness for years because of this act of treachery. But God was going to show Himself sovereign and good through it all, however. Why? Because God is God and we are not. He sees. He is just. He does what is right. And the duty of all those who are God’s regenerate people must be to learn to lean into truth, to pursue truth, to live lives of transparency rather than darkness. Why? To quote Jesus, “the people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil” (Jn 3:19). Believers are to be better than that. We’re to be men and women of the light. Transparency is essential.

Chaplain Daily Touchpoint #368: “Shields Up and Soldier On!”

Bottom Line Up Front: “Shields Up and Soldier On!”

Context: I received an early morning text from a dear friend. It was, true to this person’s form, full of encouragement. Before I share some of what it said, here’s the context. Maybe you can relate. Have you ever had a period in your life when you felt like the harder you worked, the progress just wouldn’t come? Maybe you were laboring for a promotion. Maybe you were hitting the gym harder. Maybe you were putting more miles on the track or treadmill. To be cliché, have you experienced, “One step forward, two steps back”? If we are honest, I think most folks would say, “Yes, of course.”

Segue: I’m currently in studies surrounding the biblical patriarch, Abraham. God used Abraham mightily. Abraham truly was God’s man, a man of faith in the truth-telling God, the God who is truth Himself. Multiple times, God came to Abraham and essentially said, “Trust me. Just trust me. And I’ll bless you.” In Genesis 12, for example, Scripture reads this way:

Now the LORD said to Abram, “Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and him who dishonors you I will curse, and in you all the nations of the earth shall be blessed” (Gen 12:1-3)

What’s Required: But do we understand in our bones what was required from Abraham? It wasn’t his work ethic; it wasn’t his talent; it wasn’t his charisma; it wasn’t his wealth. It was not anything for which Abraham could look within himself and boast about. It was believing God. It was trusting God at His word. Why? Because there are things that we sinners can do that God cannot: we can lie. God cannot lie. That would betray God’s nature, and God’s nature is holy and unchanging. Abraham believed God. He took God at His word. And God blessed Abraham, and the Seed of Abraham who is Christ.

Encouragement: And now, back to the opening illustration. I received a text. It said, among other things, “Please don’t let the slings and arrows of the enemy overwhelm you. As long as we labor for the gospel and the Bride, you know the artillery of the enemy is coming against us. Shields up and soldier on!” I cannot say it any better. “Shields up and soldier on!”

Soul Food (4 January 2026)

From Thoreau’s Walden:

I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what was not life, living is so dear; nor did I wish to practice resignation, unless it was quite necessary. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life, to live so sturdily and Spartan-like as to put to rout all that was not life, to cut a broad swath and shave close, to drive life into a corner, and reduce it to its lowest terms, and, if it proved to be mean, why then to get the whole and genuine meanness of it, and publish its meanness to the world; or if it were sublime, to know it by experience, and be able to give a true account of it in my next excursion. 

Today, after fellowship with some of the saints, I grabbed one of my hiking poles and, in boots and with a heavy heart, took to the woods. Like Thoreau, I longed to just listen, to learn, to be sensitive. The Lord spoke through His creation. Below are some images and sounds with which I was blessed:

Encouragement: I do not know who reads these, but perhaps you, too, find yourself at times in need of a reminder that God is bigger than our trials, that God is near to the brokenhearted, that God is near to all who call on Him in truth. If that’s you, be encouraged, dear ones. God sees all, dear ones. And He is good.

Chaplain Daily Touchpoint #367

Zinger: “Every man is in tension until until he finds a satisfactory answer to the problem of who he himself is” (Francis Schaeffer).

Schaeffer remains a hero to me. He connected dots masterfully. He saw where ideas led. He was a master of pattern recognition. In that, I track with him profoundly.

Segue: I know it’s dangerous to say what we all know viscerally, namely, that we’re fallen creatures. Not some of us. All of us. “None is righteous, no, not one” (Romans 3:10) because ” . . . all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23).

Each morning when I shave and have to look myself in the mirror, I’m keenly aware that I’m looking at a man in need of work. Just as I have to train in order to meet certain physical fitness levels required in my line of work, I likewise must train my nature, my character.

Why? Because there’s lots of room for improvement. But the only way that sinner staring me back in the face each morning when I shave will ever meet God’s standard is to be holy. And I most definitely fall short there. I am embarrassed at times when I’ve spoken when I should have remained silent, and embarrassed when I let myself go when I should have said no, and refrained. Maybe you, too, can relate.

In sum, I need grace. I need mercy. Otherwise, I’m a failure. That’s what the cross of Christ is all about, dear ones. It’s God’s righteousness imputed to His people. But the way that transaction works is when we are broken by our sin and look to Christ alone for atonement. That’s the Christian’s hope.

God’s righteousness is imputed to all who repent and believe. We’re to look away from ourselves and to Christ.

Encouragement: If you’re perhaps like I am (a sinner broken by the lingering sin he sees in his life, and by the graciousness of the cross of Christ, that he would come for such as I), that’s the greatest possible brokenness. You’re broken but beautiful because an alien righteousness, that righteousness of God in Christ, clothes you in His robes, because our filthy rags were worn by Him in His substitutionary atonement. Let us look to Him in repentance and faith, knowing that He will not lose any who are His.

Reflections Upon Gratitude

It’s the last day of 2025. Another year has come and gone.

As I walked out to the track today for some PT in the sunshine I thought a great deal about some of the blessings and trials that came my way this year. But one word kept bubbling to the surface of my mind: gratitude.

Some of the things/events/people, etc. for which I am grateful follow:

  • Our first grandchild came into this world. She is healthy, beautiful, and we look forward to being Godly grandparents like my wife and I had.
  • Friends. This year, we rediscovered–yet again–what blessings true friends are.
  • We went on an Alaskan cruise with friends. It was beyond beautiful; it was spectacular, in every sense of that term.
  • The true church. We learned once again the beauty, comfort, power, and accountability the true church is and what Jesus demonstrated in giving His life for His people.
  • Laughter. Yes, the world is crazy; I learned a bit more to just laugh at the stupidity and let it all go. There’s wisdom in knowing when to walk away from certain things.
  • My bride. After a quarter of a century together, she’s more precious to me than ever. She puts up with me, and still lets me hang around her.
  • Pets. I’ve always been (and remain) crazy about dogs. We had to put my beloved German shepherd, Brewster, down this year, but he and our other fur babies continually taught me the unique joys of family pets.
  • Our children. Our daughter and son-in-law brought their first child into this world, and we rejoice in that and pray that they would center their lives around the cross of Christ, and live in ways that please the Lord. And our son is blossoming in music ministry. He got his mom’s ear and talents for all-things-musical.
  • My calling in ministry. I absolutely love what I do. I am a soldier; I get to hang with fellow soldiers; and I get to do ministry for them and amongst them. I love the paths God has ordained for me in military and civilian ministry. I am so grateful.
  • I could go on. You likely have your own list. So here’s to 2026. Blessings to each of you for the year to come.

Chaplain Daily Touchpoint #366

Introduction: An abiding favorite writer of mine is Flannery O’Connor. In her book Mystery and Manners, she wrote many zingers. This is one of them: “To know oneself is, above all, to know what one lacks. It is to measure oneself against Truth, and not the other way around. The first product of self-knowledge is humility.”

Teaching: “To measure oneself against Truth” drives the honest man to his knees. Why? Because the beginning of wisdom is the fear of the Lord.
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight” (Pr 9:10). The proper fear of the Lord is one of reverence. It is not that God gets His jollies by mean-spiritedness. Just the opposite, in fact. God is patient with us. He suffers long for sinners. The Cross of Christ is His ultimate demonstration of that—that the triune God came on a mission of rescue of sinners.

We just celebrated another Christmas, a holy day (that’s the English word origin for “holiday”) that commemorates the incarnation of God the Son. But it’s shortsighted to not think through the incarnation of the Cross of Christ. It is Calvary, not Bethlehem, we’re to be thinking about, because the Cross of Christ demonstrates God’s patience and longsuffering towards us sinners. If we fail in the area of humility, we thumb our noses at the holiness of God. If we think we outsmart or outmaneuver God, we are fools. Nothing escapes God’s sight—nothing. This should lead us to humility and gratitude and selfless service.

Encouragement: As in many things, O’Connor was spot-on. We need to seek the approval of God rather than the approval of man. It’s come down in our day to be a cliché, but we should ultimately be serving an audience of One, because it is to God Himself that we will answer. Press on, dear ones, in the truth, knowing whom you serve, and work hard at it so that you may one day hear, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

Episode 16: What Do the Wicked Hate & Why?

In the short (less than 7 minutes) YouTube Episode 16 linked below, I explore Proverbs 29:27: “An unjust man is an abomination to the righteous, but one whose way is straight is an abomination to the wicked.”

I dive into the question asked in the title.

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Chaplain Daily Touchpoint #365: What the Wicked Hate

Text: “An unjust man is an abomination to the righteous, but one whose way is straight is an abomination to the wicked” (Pr 29:27).

Textual Analysis:

  • Parallelism is the term for the literary technique used in the above verse. All that means is that the first part of the phrase reveals a pattern, a type of person, and the reaction he gets from another type of person. The unjust, wicked man is hated by the good man. Why? Because he is wicked. Because he should be shunned because he is just that–unjust. The good man is to hate that which is evil. Otherwise, you’re failing to take a stand for what is good and right. We are commanded to hate evil in Scripture: “Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good” (Rom 12:9).

Reactions to Good and Evil:

  • The good man or woman, in other words, is characterized as one who discerns justice from injustice, good from evil, transparency versus secretiveness.
  • But did you notice the power of the second part of the verse where the poet writes, “but one whose way is straight is an abomination to the wicked”? In other words, the good man is hated by the wicked man. Why? Because he won’t go along with wickedness. He will not cave. He will not give in. Why? Because his allegiance is to the Lord and to what is right, true, and good.

Encouragement: Folks, if you take a stand for the truth, for the light, for the Lord, for transparency, you can count on persecution. Jesus told us that up front:

If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Remember the word that I said to you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you. If they kept my word, they will also keep yours. But all these things they will do to you on account of my name, because they do not know him who sent me. If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not have been guilty of sin, but now they have no excuse for their sin. Whoever hates me hates my Father also. If I had not done among them the works that no one else did, they would not be guilty of sin, but now they have seen and hated both me and my Father. But the word that is written in their Law must be fulfilled: ‘They hated me without a cause.’ (Jn 15:18-25)

But be of good courage, dear ones. God sees. And the truth will triumph. You can try to bury it, even in a tomb in Jerusalem, but the truth will rise again.