Scripture: “Whoever meddles in a quarrel not his own is like one who takes a passing dog by the ears” (Proverbs 26:17).

Teaching: The imagery is clear as an azure sky, isn’t it? The wise person keeps his nose out of other folks’ business. The fool, on the other hand, is one who solicits trouble. He’s meddlesome. He’s uneasy unless poking his nose in other people’s affairs. A goal of such people is to somehow redirect scrutiny from themselves by throwing shade on others. I’ve never quite understood why some folks are not content unless they can trash others. That’s not leadership. It’s emotional and professional sabotage. It undermines teamwork and decimates trust.

In over two decades of military service, I have known some truly excellent leaders. They’ve been men who were content in themselves, and who knew how to raise the tide of all ships in the harbor. They didn’t pound their chests. No “Look at me!” bravado with them. Instead, they’ve been the ones who made me better via their quiet and professional demeanor, character, and competence.

Encouragement: I am drawn to quality leaders, just like many others are. We know them by their fruits. They’re the givers, the ones who’ll be remembered because they poured themselves out for the team. We know they care for us, and we’re loyal to them. May such men increase. And may those who take a passing dog by the ears meet with a breed appropriate for the meddlesome.