Question: What does it say that we desire law for others but mercy and grace for ourselves?

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But it displeased Jonah exceedingly,[a] and he was angry. 2 And he prayed to the Lord and said, “O Lord, is not this what I said when I was yet in my country? That is why I made haste to flee to Tarshish; for I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, and relenting from disaster. 3 Therefore now, O Lord, please take my life from me, for it is better for me to die than to live.” 4 And the Lord said, “Do you do well to be angry?”

5 Jonah went out of the city and sat to the east of the city and made a booth for himself there. He sat under it in the shade, till he should see what would become of the city. 6 Now the Lord God appointed a plant[b] and made it come up over Jonah, that it might be a shade over his head, to save him from his discomfort.[c] So Jonah was exceedingly glad because of the plant. 7 But when dawn came up the next day, God appointed a worm that attacked the plant, so that it withered. 8 When the sun rose, God appointed a scorching east wind, and the sun beat down on the head of Jonah so that he was faint. And he asked that he might die and said, “It is better for me to die than to live.” 9 But God said to Jonah, “Do you do well to be angry for the plant?” And he said, “Yes, I do well to be angry, angry enough to die.” 10 And the Lord said, “You pity the plant, for which you did not labor, nor did you make it grow, which came into being in a night and perished in a night. 11 And should not I pity Nineveh, that great city, in which there are more than 120,000 persons who do not know their right hand from their left, and also much cattle?”

Context, Context, Context: The reluctant, self-absorbed, narcissistic Jonah did not want grace and mercy for others. In this case, the “others” were the people of Nineveh. Yet Jonah had proclaimed an 8-word message to them, and many were saved: “Yet forty days, and Nineveh shall be overthrown!” (Jonah 3:4). And do you know what God did through that message? He saved people.

And we might think that Jonah would have rejoiced. But no. Jonah pouted. Why? Because it wasn’t about Jonah. It was about the message of redemption. It was about repentance and faith. And that infuriated Jonah. Jonah loved nothing quite so much as Jonah.

Encouragement: What does it say that we desire law for others but mercy and grace for ourselves? One of the beautiful works of the gospel is that it humbles us. It redirects our focus from being on ourselves, our own comforts. It makes us others-focused. Jonah very often failed to live out that transformation. He wanted mercy and grace for himself but he desired law for others. The pattern continues, sadly. How might we be of much more beautiful use if we desired others to experience mercy and grace as much as we long for those things for ourselves?